So on my Polestar, I have the option to adjust the max state of charge dynamically. Batteries wear out, but if you only charge them to 80 or 90% regularly, you'll get more life out of them. I charge at home almost exclusively - I've used a fast charger maybe twice, just to ensure I know how.I’m new to EV’s and charging them & trying to learn
Almost monthly we make a 160 mile drive, then 20 ish city miles and then around 160 miles more coming home & traffic can be a pain. My problem is I don’t want to sit at a charging station for hours, that’s for the birds….
When you need to, you can bump your SoC up to 100% before you leave home, and then the strategy is to charge on the road only up to 80%.
The last 10-20% of charge from 80-100% is what takes the longest, because of a feature of rechargeable batteries called "the stadium effect". When the battery or stadium is empty, you (and electrons) can get to your seat fairly quickly. Electrons though just pick the first "seat" in the battery that's open. As the "stadium" fills up, charging slows down because the electrons have to find empty seats. That also causes heat to build up, and that's what ends up shortening the battery's life.
So anyway, if you're not going for the Harvester option, then when you have those long trips, charge up to 100% at the beginning of the trip, and then stop just outside where things get crappy, and charge up to 80% or whatever you need to get home with margin. Fast charging up to 80% from like 30 or 40% will take about as much time as you'd need to visit the restroom and maybe grab a snack or something.
The drawback is when chargers are broken, which happens way too much IMO, or when jerks leave their Tesla's plugged in after they're full and there are no open stations. But, there are apps for all that.